A Step By Step Guide To Escaping The Friend Zone

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The Friend zone is an unfortunate place where a lot of guys find themselves and which they unfortunately don’t know how to get out of. Not to worry, as we’ve got a step by step guide that can help you escape the friend zone and get that woman you’ve been eyeing exactly where you want.

Recognise The Problem
The very first thing that can help you escape the friend zone is to admit you have a problem. It could be that you’ve not made your intentions known, and she has no idea you’re interested in her. It could also be that she’s seeing someone else or is not ready for a relationship at that particular point in time. And while it may be difficult to believe, there may also be the possibility that she’s not into you. Whatever the case may be, it is best to identify what the problem is before drawing out a plan of attack. If you’re prepared to fix the problems, you need to ask yourself if she will see you in a different light afterwards and reconsider you as an option. If she’s however dating someone else, you need to ask yourself if she is worth hanging around for. If you find out she’s not into you, summon the courage to walk away but if that’s not the case, you can move on to the next stage.

Initiate Flirting
Perhaps it could be that she doesn’t know how you feel, then it’s time for you to step your game up with flirting. Hold her eye contact for that extra half a second, touch her arm during conversation to establish physical intimacy and ask hypothetical questions that will get her mind running wild. An example could be“What’s your dream first date?”, and you can follow it up with, “How about we make it happen?”
Women tend to pick up clues faster than men an if she reacts warmly when you flirt with her, you may just be on your way to building attraction and improving her perception of you as a potential partner.

Allow Her Have Her Space
Humans naturally crave what is out of their reach and it is best for you to make yourself less available for her. This doesn’t mean you should be cold or rude. You can simply give her some space and allow her start doing some of the chasing. Staying away will arouse her curiosity and force her to start thinking of what her life will be like without you in it.
You can add a little bit of mystery by changing something about yourself (such as having a new haircut), that will force her to rethink her perception of you. Even if you fail in your quest to escape the friend zone, improving yourself will make you a much better and attractive person for the next woman that comes along.

Get Her Off Your Mind
There’s no need for you to obsess over her social media pages as that will do your state of mind little good. Have a bit of self respect when things are not working out and move on. If you’re providing her with the responsibilities of a boyfriend including the compliments, the shoulder to lean on and the polite tolerance of chatter, without having the same of the same position, it’s time to grow a spine and walk away.
Also, remember to never beg, because women find confidence attractive. If after everything, she’s still not into you, back down and find someone who shares your belief in how awesome you are. We bet there are a thousand women out there who are waiting for you!



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